Start With Suffering, Then Turn the Page

Suffering…when we’re in it, we think it will never end. The truth is, it is the jumping off point. Suffering kicks us in the butt and we choose to turn the page. We hurt. It’s uncomfortable, so we look for ways to relieve our suffering. We look for fixes.  Some are dead ends. Others lead us to places we never imagined going. Surprises await us at every turn. Miracles are born. Veils lift. Our sorrow grows into purpose and a broadening of perspective. We discover there is much more inside of us than we ever knew. This is the miracle of transformation.

Yesterday, I read a post by author/memoirist/blogger/writer/friend, contributor to Voices of Wisdom series, Kathy Pooler. The title captured my attention when it appeared on my Facebook page buried among the endless political posts and a reminders of the recent act of terrorism. Turning the Page: A Memoir Moment smacked of hope, at least for me.

TURN THE PAGE

“Turn the page” was my mantra during a crisis point in my life. Day after day I listened to REO Speedwagon’s song Roll with the Changes on headphones while hoofing it on a treadmill at a near by health club.  I focused on a big beautiful tree across the way and faced my fears one by one.

In one of those moments, I found the courage to choose to do what I always wanted to do — to write. The time arrived when I was ready to make serious changes in my life. Each time I heard the lyric, “So if you’re tired of the same old story, Oh, turn some pages”, it reminded to accept things I did not want to accept and choose to move forward. I was being called to loosen my grip and let the winds of my spirit take me somewhere unexpected.

There are things in life we can not change. The past is one. Physical disabilities for another. But, it doesn’t have to be the end of the story.  In fact, it can be the beginning. Kathy’s description of her journey, delivered with depth of experience and understanding, reminds readers that when we follow our heart and do what we know we must do, our life becomes far richer than we dared dream possible.

Yes, we have limitations. But, they need not break us or ruin our lives.  We may start with suffering, but we can always end with transformation.

LIFE TRANSITIONS: Pathway to a Happier You!

In my new book I share bits and pieces of my journey through the upheaval of my mid-life years and what I learned along the way. We are all different, but there are fundamental truths that speak to everyone. My eternal hope is that you will find a thing or two of value on the pages that will make your journey a little smoother and just as rewarding as mine has been. The paperback is now available on Amazon.