When you take on the role of carer for a loved one, it’s important to do your research so as to not be surprised by the amount of work that it takes. But even when one does look at all the angles, it’s hard to really understand the challenges you will face until you face them. It’s one of the most challenging things you can do. Going it alone without any assistance can quickly turn to burnout and ill health. Fortunately, help is available. Even if you can’t hire full-time help, there are a variety of other support options available in most areas.
HANDS-ON-HELP
The actual day-to-day care you provide can be the most exhausting part of taking on a carer’s role. It is often physically, emotionally, and socially demanding. Finding a way to manage a break from the never-ending demands of caregiving may be what you need most. Respite care is a service that you pay for, but one that can be extremely beneficial. Hiring temporary care will allows you time to yourself and an opportunity to recharge your batteries.
Respite care is designed to keep standards of care and schedules consistent, too. You do not need to worry about whether or not your loved one will get quality care, or care that is as good as you provide. The continuum of healthcare services ensures that your loved one will be looked after in a structured and loving way. Respite care can be scheduled for specific days throughout the week or month or on an as needed basis. Just make sure you are able to factor it into your budget.
FINANCIAL HELP
In taking on the role of a caregiver, you are taking on a full-time job. You are not likely to have the same flexibility for employment that others do. As such, take time to look into what financial help is available. Some Medicaid programs will pay you to be a carer, for instance. Otherwise, you might want to look at how ALTCS works or similar programs depending on your state. Assistance for long term care is available in many states. In addition, some financial assistance may be available in your state for making accessibility changes to your home. Get in touch with whatever local organization helps to care for the elderly in your area. They should be able to help you get a good idea of what financial assistance is available.
SUPPORT SYSTEM
In addition to practical assistance and financial aid, there is another extremely important area of support to be addressed. The mental and emotional load on a carer is every bit as important, if not more important than the practical matters. Steps should be taken early and often to avoid burnout. Aside from being organized and scheduling to meet your loved one’s needs as best as you can, consider joining a support group. You will find groups, either online or locally, where you can share your experiences and receive support for the challenges you are facing. These groups offer an opportunity to seek advice, learn some handy tips from others, or simply make some friends with similar experiences. Having others who understand your day-to-day life and challenges can be a great relief.
Take some time to think about which of these options is most pressing for your situation. Then, take a step toward improving your life as a carer. You will be glad you did.
