I’m not in my twenties any longer. Some women hate this fact, but I’m not bothered in the slightest. Do you want to know why? It’s because I live my life to the fullest regardless of my age. So, it’s safe to say I haven’t stopped dating and I won’t do so anytime soon. But, I have noticed a couple of things which have changed since I was in my ‘prime’. Because I know relationships for the folks over sixty aren’t straightforward, I thought I’d share a few of my epiphanies with you, and hopefully make things a little easier for you.
Here are the four things we should all avoid doing as swinging 60s daters.
Listening To Young People
What do young people know about life? Have they been in a relationship for decades and then found themselves alone? Okay, I know they mean well and I’m grateful I have young people in my life that have my best interests at heart. But, and it’s a big one, sometimes other people need to keep their noses out and let us make our own mistakes. Sure, I might be wrong but I guarantee I’ll have a fantastic time in the process, and I’ll learn from the experience. Also, there’s an ever-so-slight chance I might be right, although young people won’t admit it!
Connecting Financially
There’s no doubt I’ve worked hard to get myself into the position I am today. It took a lot of sacrifices and planning to be financially stable in my retirement. Now, I want to be able to enjoy the golden years without worrying about money. Sorry fellas, but that means I won’t be the knight in shining armor rescuing the damsel in distress. Anyone who wants to talk about how long do inquiries stay on your credit report can but that’s all I’ll do – be a sounding board. Sharing money now is too much of a risk.
Being Embarrassed
Okay, the days of lusting after one another are pretty much over in many respects. I’ll be the first to admit that passion is a young person’s game. Still, it doesn’t mean the older generation can’t enjoy sex. It’s always a major part of life for all of us regardless of age so there is no reason to feel embarrassed. Yes, they’ll be a range of emotions and I think it’s important to embrace every single feeling. However, embarrassment can exit stage left, thank you very much.
Thinking Like A Young Woman
In the past, certain things were attractive to me. Of course, everyone loves a man with drive and passion and power. It’s human nature, especially when we consider the type of person we want to spend the rest of our lives with. Now, the list is a little different. I’ve found that a man who is comforting and kind and funny is perfect for this stage of my life. Maybe lots of other older ladies and I didn’t make the transition right away but there’s still time.
I hope my musings are helpful and informative!
